Shalihah woman (wife shalihah) is the Best and semulia - noble title given to a woman beloved of God. Title or that title is not just a name and pride, but he is the fruit of a long struggle in the life of a woman. Reminded the Muslim community, in order to guard against khadraauddiman, the beautiful woman who grew up in a bad place.
Many women long for that title, but very little until the goal is missed. Therefore, the long journey that must be taken by a woman necessitated by the steep road, winding, rocky, up hill and down the mountain, full of thistles and thorns. Think for a moment the leaders of women's life journey of Paradise, which is the best of women as the Prophet Prophet below.
The best of women is Maryam bint Imran and best of women is Khadijah bint Khuwailid. (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim). Of Abu Musa ra. said: the Prophet said: The man with the perfect lot, but not so for women except Asiya wife of Pharaoh, and Maryam bint Imran. And indeed primacy over other women such as Aisha tsarid virtue (the oily side dish) for other food. (Narrated by Bukhari). The Prophet said: Fatima is a woman leader of Paradise. (Narrated by Bukhari).All the women mentioned in the hadiths above, which was given the title as the best of women of Paradise (Mary, Asiya, Khadija, Aisha and Fatima) are women who are his life journey full of trials and challenges. They suffered much misfortune and disaster reinforcements, both in matters of family, society and the enemies of Allah and His Messenger. But they did not would not budge from the faith and obedience to Allah.
Do traits and character that belongs in running the day-to-day life, so it would hardly survive from all worldly amok, and a noble title as a woman / wife shalihah? Generally described in the Qur'an, Allah says:
1. The man is a leader for women, because Allah hath sebahagian their (male) on sebahagian another (woman), and because they (men) have spend of their property. Therefore the righteous women, who are obedient to God again when her husband did not maintain themselves there, because God has preserved (they are). (Surat An-Nisa '4:34).
This is the paragraph that explains in detail about the particulars of women in domestic life which is under the leadership of men. Mentioned that there are two types of women: the shalihah and non shalihah. Then shalihah among other traits are obedient, that is obedient to Allah, to His Messenger and obedience to the husband.
In addition he was welcome to stay at home, to be doing good to their husbands and guard her honor at the time her husband was not home. AtsTsauri and Qatadah said: Meaning guard her honor when the husband is not home is to keep everything that should be maintained, both with regard to self-respect and treasure. Meanwhile, Ibn Jarir and al-Bayhaqi narrated ha-dits from Abu Hurayrah who said that the Prophet said:
Best is a charming woman when you view your heart, when you obey orders, and keep your wealth and preserve her honor when you are not home. Then the Prophet. read the paragraph above. (Surat An-Nisa '4: 34).
Sheikh Muhammad Abduh says that what is meant by maintaining self-respect here is to shut down what can be embarrassing when shown or disclosed. That is, keeping everything that is specifically related to secret husband and wife, and her husband did not tell secrets to anyone except to people who really trusted because they want to find a solution of household clutter.
In syar'i, which can also be categorized in his case this is a must keep everything to do with the intimate relationship of husband and wife, including talk about things that are not obscene. Do not like khadrau'ud-Diman, as is frequently aired television infotainment, mengumbar all the nakedness of the family so that people disgusted to hear that.
Apatah again when it comes to forms of behavior that they carry out as husband and wife who are not heard by other than their worth. It can also be understood that the phrase referred to by the Qur'an above, is one of the figurative expression that has a profound meaning: the woman who hit the hard-hearted, but can understand it secret by those who are soft-hearted.
Women do have such a gentle instincts, which you can break all their hearts just by touching her fingertips only. Their hearts have veins are immediately sensitive to pump blood look on their faces when receiving stimulation. So no direct linking allowed hifzhul unseen sentences (keeping the treasure and honor yourself) with a sentence-where the bima hafizhallah as God watches over himself).

For such a drastic shift from the narrative of a secret hidden away in the direction the narrative of God's preservation of such a person to think clearly turned a prolonged about things which are behind the veil-the veil of personal secrets husband and wife. Namely, things hidden and secret, to be transferred to the supervision of Allah Almighty and wajalla.
Respect is given to women through the testimony of God above, are intended to keep them awake from the touch of dirty hands, the eyes of ignorant, or gossip, while their husband is not in home, through persuasion, seduction in the form of bills, luxury cars, a beautiful home or a few slices of bread.
Thus, women shalihah is women who keep the property and honor him as su-aminya not at home, as Allah has guarded them. That is the nature shalihah to them. For a woman who shalihah will always get the supervision of Allah, and piety they have had caused them to become women who maintained the treacherous nature and capable of keeping mandate.
Because that is what is meant by Women Shalihah in the above paragraph are those who are always obedient to Allah, His Messenger, her husband and did not indulge desires in daily life. If the associated meaning of the verse mentioned above appropriate to describe the particulars of the contemporary woman who likes to reveal the secrets of his own household, or other person households (female gossip soap opera) and can not maintain the property and honor of her husband when they were not at home is not included in the corridors women shalihah.
Do not like khadrau'uddiman, as is frequently aired television infotainment, indulgence in all the nakedness of the family so that people disgusted to hear that. If one looks closely at the description above, it can be concluded that the character has a wife who shalihah as follows:
1. Obey Allah and His Messenger
By his obedience was the biggest asset for him to achieve the highest reward the fruits of science and his faith. That is paradise full of pleasure, he will abide therein forever. Allah Most High. said:
(The laws) are provisions from God. Whoso obey Allah and His Messenger, Allah will put it into syurga flowing rivers in it, and they abide therein, and that's a big victory. (Surat An-Nisa ', 4: 13).
God's Word again: And whoever to obey Allah and His Messenger (Him), they will co-sa-ma with people who had been granted favors by God, namely: the prophets, the shiddiiqiin, those who were martyred , and the people deeds. And that's their best friend. (Surat An-Nisa ', 4: 69).
Abu Hurairah ra said, the Prophet had the word: All of my ummah will enter Paradise except a reluctant (unwilling). The Companions asked: Who is the Messenger of Allah reluctant? He replied: Those who obey me (Follow Sunnahku), he shall enter Paradise, and whoever mendurhakaiku, then he is reluctant to enter heaven. (Bukhari) And so are a woman or a wife, she will go to heaven by obeying Allah and His Messenger with the truth.
2. Abiding by Husband Obedience to her husband is a safety door for her to achieve eternal pleasure and eternal in heaven.
Prophet said:
If a wife has prayed five times a day, and shaum (fasting) in Ramadan, and keep his cock from the unlawful and obedient to her husband, it will be welcome: go to heaven than any door you like (Narrated by Ahmad). 
It was narrated from Umm Salamah, bahwasa his asthma came to the Prophet and said: Actually I am a messenger of Muslim women, all they say and think as I'm Messenger of Allah, Allah has sent to men and women, we believe to you and follow you, (but) we women feel restricted and shackled. Though we were waiting for their homes, where to channel their passion, we were containing their children, they were exceeded by pray, watch bodies and strive in the path of Allah.
And when they are out of the jihad, we who guard their treasure and we are the melihara their children, then are we not getting the reward they O Messenger of Allah? So turn the Prophet to his companions and asked: Did you hear the question that good of a woman about his religion?
They replied: Yes, By Allah, O Messenger of Allah, then he said: Get thee O Asthma and Tell the women who sent you that one of your good service to her husband, asking keridhaannya and obey his will equal the (reward of) deeds of men which thou mentioned earlier. Then went with a bertahlil Asthma and bertakbir as happy with what the Prophet said to him. (Al Istii'aab, Ibn 'Abd al-Bar).
Of Ibn Abbas it says, a woman representative said: Messenger of Allah, I am a representative of the women to meet you. The real jihad is only prescribed for men only, if they win their reward, and if they are killed, then they always live and be on the side of their Lord Rizki. While our class of women performing their duties (submissive) to them, then is there any part of who we are? Then the Messenger answered, Convey to anyone of the women you meet, that obedience to the husband and recognize the rights of husband is such a match, and how few of you are able to carry it. (Reported by al-Bazzar).
3. Serving Husband
Some wives are very obedient to her husband, but less good at serving her husband with the best of it. So if obedient to their husbands and good service, it is a glory that elevates its own degree of safety achieved in the world and the hereafter.
Umm Salamah ra said, the Prophet said: Every wife who died blessed by her husband, then he will enter Paradise. (Narrated by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah). From Abdullah ibn Abi Aufa he said, Mu'adh was sent to Yemen or the Sham and she saw people bowing to the magnifying magnifying Christians can and to the priests. Then he said to himself, the Prophet is more worthy of exalted (than they).
So when he came to the Prophet he said: Messenger of Allah, I really Christians can see people prostrating to the magistrates and the priests, and I said in my heart that thou art true to exalted worth more (than they) and then he said: Suppose I could order someone bowing to someone, then it really will I command the wife prostrate to her husband and a wife has not said to be fulfilling his duty to God so completely fulfilled its obligations towards her husband, so that if his (her husband) requires it on the vehicle, indeed he must not reject it. (Ahmad).
4. Keeping Self Respect
The fourth characteristic is what is the key to keshalihan a wife who is under the supervision of her husband's deeds. The man who has a wife with such characteristics have a property means the best deposits. From Abu Umaamah ra, from the Prophet he had word: Nothing is most beneficial for a (male) after a devoted believer in God than to have a wife who shalihah, ie if he was in command he obeyed, if it is deemed to please, and if he staggered he still doing good, and if she left (her husband) she kept her husband in terms of herself and her husband's property. (Reported by Ibn Majah)
From Ibn `Abbas the Prophet said: There are four cases who have meant good things in the world and the hereafter, which is a grateful heart, which is always verbal remembrance, the patient's body when overwritten reinforcements disaster (disaster) and the wife that her husband did not plunge and damaging property. (HR Thabrani with isnad jayyid).
Best woman there was a woman (wife) that if you look at encouraging you, if you menyruhnya he obey, and if you go he also maintains himself and keep the treasure. (Abu Dawud).
The degree of hadith by al-Hakim declared it saheeh). May the sisters were able to have these characters that deserve the promised reward of Allah. They became partners in the struggle Fisabilillah, and became a loyal companion dikala joys and sorrows with her husband she loved. Amien Yes Rabbal Alamin.