Obedience to the Husband Wife

For scholars and people who have learned the Shari'a on the marital relationship in Islam, the topic of husbands obedient wives it is not a new topic, "it was supposed to be that" there may be one of the comments if there discussing the issue of obedience of a wife to her husband .. . unfortunately many people do not realize that behind the Shari'a that God has determined there is a lot of knowledge and wisdom to be happy about and cheer the life of the world and bring salvation to live in the hereafter, Insha Allah. Sciences such as these are not just anyone get it, not even the clergy to get it because the science is only direzekikan from God to those who earnestly pursue ways. For example the science of prayer. The obligation of prayer and prayer is obligatory procedures known to all Muslims, but only a few people who use the science of prayer is to become closer to God, longing to God, and with the grace and mercy of God is processed so that people can pray prevent the shameful and unjust deeds.
There are several important points that need to be known by the Muslim on the issue of obedience to the husband, among others: 1. Position of women in Islam
Since the creation of man until the implementation of Shari'a in human life, God has given many indications that women and men are not equal:     * The Prophet Adam was created first compared Eve.
    * Adam was created from the ground, Eve was created from a rib of Adam.
    * God created Eve for Adam's entertaining, not as a hero, helper or someone who is stronger or equal to Adam.
    * Women do not have the prophets and messengers, but have the opportunity to become a saint
In the daily lives of so many different Islamic law between men and women for example:

    * Baby boy born on adzankan, baby girl diiqamatkan,
    * Aqiqah the voluntary law, for male infants two goats, a female goat only,
    * Men and women differ nakedness limit,
    * Women need a guardian in marriage, men do not
    * Women, outwardly worship is limited, because there are periods, childbirth, etc., but apart from that limited her ability God does not restrict a woman's chance to get syurga.
    * Women are protected and defended the right of its rights in Islam, for example in a state of war women and children should not be killed, another example in the family if there are boys and girls, give the first prize in girls, etc..
2. Relationship Men and Women
Intercourse and manners among men, among women, and men and women have been arranged in Islam. Men and women should relate in the form of cooperation, trade, etc. with the rules and certain restrictions, but there is one business that is limited only be done in a certain bond of marriage. 3. Wedding
Perhaps many women who feel their needs are sufficiently met, comfortable exchanging thoughts with the men, get support and guidance from men whose status friend, brother, parents, etc. .... but there is a need for men and women who also God filled only with the status of husband and wife with one bond of marriage. There are a lot of sharia in marriage which is quite heavy and require a seriousness of both parties both men and women to obey it, but behind it all God for the many lessons and gifts for people who really mean it. Among the gifts that God gives is this: children who solehah pious, devoted to parents and beneficial to the community, women's opportunities to obtain syurga if it had really meant to run sharia in marriage, etc..
The need is met by God through the bonds of marriage is sex and everything approaching and dealing with such matters. If this relationship is not done within the bounds of marriage, God's curse, but God bless and have mercy on all that intercourse in marriage, and even gives a lot of wisdom and knowledge through the relationship is lawful prize, as a child, get peace in the world, get the opportunity to further reverent worship, get a chance to get closer to God, etc.. 4. Solehah female role models
There have been many examples of women solehah at the time of the prophets and messengers such as Siti Fatimah, Siti Khadijah, Siti Hajar, Siti Assia. There are examples of marriages between women and men solehah pious, there are also marriages between women and men who do not solehah pious solehah there are also women and men who have not pious but one day God made man because of the prayers of pious wife who solehah, etc.. The whole story shows there is no marriage relationship is smooth and cool deep calm, the marriage must have a lot of exams, even for men and women who are really serious with God. But a lot of science behind these tests wisdom and gifts that God gives not the people who live alone, but also to the environment and society. God is very fond of people who really serious in his path.
So a few things about the wife's submission to her husband, may be useful.