To be made in choosing a wife

A lecturer told me that to find a woman not only in view of its beautiful just because not all beautiful women have a good nature good heart, as well as women who are ugly in appearance but has a good heart like a jewel.
We only see a person only from the outside but will not see from the women themselves in depth, whether or not a thing that did look good on the outside but it certainly also has a good well in it?. We just stuck by the sheer beauty, in butakan by a pretty face and has a beautiful curves will know the truth but whether he has.
3 main things we need to know that the beauty in the world is not eternal like what we yearn to be seen but the beauty from within is a beauty that will continue to be maintained until old age coupled with a sincere love and mutual delivered both had an understanding of the each other. 

The specialty of women

1. Prayer maqbul women more than men kerana loving nature that is stronger than men.When asked to Rasulallah s.a.w. to this, the king replied: "My mother is more compassionate than the father and the loving prayers will not be in vain."
2. Women who solehah (good) it's better than 1,000 people a pious man.
3. A woman solehah is better than 70 saints.
4. A woman solehah is better than the 70 pious men.
5. Anyone who is encouraging her daughter, rank is like people who cry sentiasa fear Allah swt kerana and those who feared God s.w.t. will be forbidden the Fire to the top of her.
6. Anyone who brings a gift (of food items into the home market and given to his family, then the reward as bersedakah. Let prefer girls than boys. If anyone is pleasing daughter as if she was freed children of Prophet Ismail a.s.
7. It is not a woman's menstruation, except haidhnya is kifarat (ransom) for his sins of the past, and if on the first day haidhnya read "Alhamdulillahi'alaa Kulli Halin Wa Astaghfirullah Praise be to Allah in all circumstances and I beg forgiveness of God from all sin. "; then God set him free from hell and easily through shiratul Mustaqim safe from seksa, even AllahTa'ala darjat lifted upward, as darjatnya 40 people die a martyr, if he always remembrance of Allah during haidhnya.
8. Women who lived with her children will stay with me (the Prophet) in syurga.
9. Whoever has three daughters or three sisters or two daughters or two sisters, then she acts ihsan in association with them and educate them with great sense of god-fearing and responsible, then for him Adala syurga.
10. Rather than Aisha r.ha. "Any person who is tested with anything rather than daughters, then he do good to them, then they will become a barrier to him than the fires of hell."